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Some forums can only be seen by registered members. View detailed profile Advanced or search site with Search Forums Advanced. I worked as a temp at a company a year ago for a week and struck up a work friendship with a guy there.
We exchanged addresses and the rest is history. Since then we are ing each other up to a dozen times a day. I am 30 years old and he is 42, so there is a age gap.
Oh, both of us are married and not to each other. I tell my friends about my friend who I have not seen in a few months and some of them think it is wrong, while others are jealous. There is no flirting, or expectation of a real affair.
Our conversations are just about general topics we are interested in such as politics and current events and music and movies. Both of us work in boring slow jobs where we have lots of time on our hands.
So the s keep us busy and engaged in a boring job. What do you think? Is it wrong to so many times to a married man?
Remember we rarely see each other and there is no flirting If your spouse had a married man or woman of the opposite sex that they ed back and forth to to ease the boredom of a slow job, would you be angry? My husband knows I am ing my male friend and has met him a few times but my hubby does not read the s or would I Email relationship with married man him see them.
The two of them my husband and my friend are not close because they have nothing in common at all. My husband asks now and then what I and my friend are talking about in our many s but I just speak in broad statements.
My husband seems basically uninterested in the type of things that that my friend and I would talk about anyway.
Married man; here is my goodbye letter (to my married lover)
My s friend's wife is not really all that concerned either. She likes how the communications between us is exposing her husband to new ideas, information and has a nice friend to kick ideas around with.
It is my friends who think it is so strange. Do you too?
Forget the wife And if you are sending those e-mails to or from a work address Either of you could be fired, depending on the company's policy about electronic communications. Many companies are realizing the cost of lost productivity due to personal e-mails. Some have policies that limit personal e-mails to breaks.
That's why some sites are blocked on work computers. Facebook, Youtube, etc. Even if you are in upper management, such e-mails could be viewed as poor decision making. All it takes is an e-mail audit. And in these times, companies could use e-mail audits as a chance to trim staff. During orientation, did you an electronic confidentiality agreement of any sort? Did he?
A little Freudian slip? Just curious. As far as your last question is concerned, yes I would be concerned and find it very odd that your respective spouses allegedly aren't in the least bit suspicious unless maybe they'd both rather not be married to either of you!
I think it would be ok as long as there is no sexual innuendo stuff. I totally agree with STT, the questions are valid and need answering.
You are trying to justify ing someone you want to lust over maybe not or just maybe you want someone to say hey go for it take it a step further. Take responosiblity in your marriage vows-both of you!
I will but the trend of finger pointing against you What harm is it? Especially if your husband knows and don't care? In my eyes that makes him a great guy because he does not have a streak of deadly poison in his blood called jealousy.
But knowing a little about human biology I wonder how you talked all that time without the subject going to Not that I have a problem with it at all, I just have a hard time believing it. Live and let live and don't hurt anyone. Enjoy your trip to Pennsylvania. Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick.
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